whilst in medical confines I'm pleased that a select number of staff are familiar with deconstruction. I get them and they get me. Having an I and Thou in this case allows for greater subjective analyses. Two way conversation. I may have a glint in my eye that nurses who were questioned afterwards could not perceive; or a glimmer of pleasant and infectious geniality.
And once I mentioned the work of Professor John Read. My wonderful interlocutor, and in other circumstances allround good fella, observably winced. Have feedback on this. John Read's Winceability. If you don't laugh you can always submit a YES form for any interview or engagement in itself. I use first names when I can. I too am part of the complex issue.
But among birds of feather we mingle together, like molar chemistry!